Three way bonanza
First, let me dispense with the easy part. Every guy I asked would undoubtedly have a three way with two chicks and was more than up for it. The only, and let me stress only, variation seemed to be a single dissenter who would rather just watch two chicks together rather than participate. So, just for those of you who are keeping track, men=100% two chicks, and by and large they either were trying to figure out how to either get away with it without their girlfriends knowing, or maybe get them involved.
The chicks, of course, are another matter. First off the split was about 60%-40% for two guys and most of them really wern't that interested. A notable difference. The reasons why were even more complicated. Most of the chicks, unfortunately, who picked for two chicks, by and large reported that having two guys was too intimidating. Or, as one of them put it, two guys=too much cock. Others were sort of grossed out by the two guys, and really didn't think that two guys together was very arousing (ie nasty if they kissed syndrom). Noticably absent, "I'd love to sleep with another chick. "Which of course is a bummer.
On the flip side, as it were, things wern't that much better. Number one reason chicks would rather have two guys? They couldn't handle the jealousy of sharing a guy with another girl. As another friend put it, more cocks=less jealousy. Only one chick was glaringly honest and said that she'd rather have two guys because "you could have one in the front and one in the back." Rock and roll!
Interestingly, nobody said both.
I once read that if you don't have a three way by the time you're thirty, you're never going to have one. I have no idea if thats true, but what I do think is true is that most people, when they think about threesomes seem to think only about themselves in the senario. With that kind of thinking it probably won't. To put it another way, as the woman who cuts my hair did, who is this super guy who could handle two women.